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well, i i dated my girl for almost four years (would have been 4 on nov 1) and last night it ended.

It was a mutual agreement just because stuff had gotten to be too hard to deal with. everytime we talked we would end up arguing about the dumbest shit and were in a bad mood a lot of the time. we tried to fix things plenty of times, but it got too bad.

i really really love this girl and i would love to spend the rest of my life with her...thats what is the hardest part about it. but some things that she asks of me seem almost impossible. i have a limit on my cannibis consumption and i could not look at porn, i would never get to go to the titty bar either (when i turned 18 i didnt get to go:( )...along with many other things....i dont want to make it seem like its all based around porn or anything. at this stage in my life i feel like i should have those freedoms to be able to enjoy my youth and have my fun while im young. she took that as me not caring about her and never wanting to make her happy, which went completely the wrong way...

i also have an appt this year, so people are stopping by all the time and chilling and everytime she called i was doing something so i would have to call her back later...and that turned into a blowing off situation.

its so damn hard i just think right now being 19 is not the time for this...i always wished i would have met her when i was a senior in college instead of 10th grade in HS.

oh well, i dont even know why im typing this, just lettin sime of my sorrow out. i hope shit gets better one day, but for now...she is no longer there.:(
 

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Neegra, I feel for ya. Your young and there will be others that you will feel the same about so don't worry! It'll hurt for a little while but we all get over it sooner or later. Does she hang out with mutual friends of yours? If so, that'll be a pain. Right now you need to live life as you see fit or you will regret it someday.
 

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christo said:
Does she hang out with mutual friends of yours? If so, that'll be a pain. .
yeah, she hangs out with all my highschool friends from augusta
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Right now you need to live life as you see fit or you will regret it someday
thats another reason why i was behaving the way i was. i dont want to give up a lot of my youth then for some retarded reason like right now, break up after school. then i would have sacrificed all and have lost all.

but it was a lot of hard work, she lived 1hr 15minutes away for 2 years and 2hrs away for a year. and its weird just to see it all go away just like that.
 

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Don't stress it bro...just live your life and things will work out for the best, for both of you. Maybe later on after you've lived your life and are ready to settle down she'll come around :) You never know.
 

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you in college? anyhow I agree with what you did totally and i know exactly how your feeling...i felt that at one point...just get out and start dating and enjoying life man and youll feel single again in no time and probably enjoy it...and who knows someone great might walk into your life again....
 

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hey man, its ok....it will get better. trust me. just hang out with your friends, dont think about her. u are still soo young and there are soooo many girls out there, u have no idea. just stick to your beliefs, and dont let anyone else tell you other wise. good luck man.
 

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so cal's advice is true
chill wiht your friends, remember when all else goes sour your friends should still be there for you, always through GF's and all the other bullshit
just be you and good things will come along

good luck

Nick
 

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putting restrictions on you had to be a buzzkill.......it sounds like you made a good decision though! live it up.....be a man whore......lol
 

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"So after 4 years...it is all over" I thought your car had blown up man! Well, good luck finding a new one...You may want to look other places besides Augusta though, I din't see too many lookers around there...lol Good luck...sorry to here that
 

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m2891e said:
putting restrictions on you had to be a buzzkill.......it sounds like you made a good decision though! live it up.....be a man whore......lol
so when are you comin down here?;)



thanks for the concern guys, its like a family away from home:D *sniff sniff*





neegra...man whore.....get outta here
heh, ever since i met you i had been with her...you dont know the potential. plus at least i like girls unlike you.
 
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